Friday, February 20, 2009

巨蟹座的我。。^^


(朋友传来的电邮。。)

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下笔写巨蟹座的女人,我非常担心自己不够客观。从小到大,身边总是有好几个巨蟹座的好友,我似乎对这个星座下出生的女子,有着特别的感情。我想,那或许是她们温暖的个性,很容易赢得友谊的缘故。而当彼此真的成为朋友之后,就是你一会儿陪她高兴,一会儿陪她伤心的日子了。我有时觉得她们善解人意的可爱,有时又气她们敏感、情绪化的莫名其妙。而至于想要跟她们谈恋爱的你呢!这样的感受恐怕比我有过之而无不及!

温和又体贴的巨蟹座女子,很容易给人「恋爱」的感觉。如果你是一个追求「爱的感觉」的人,选择她,你肯定不会失望。巨蟹座的女人通常会给男人一种「如果失去你的爱,我的人生便毫无意义」的信心。这真是很多男人梦寐以求的感受。不过,如果你只是个把恋爱当游戏的人,请千万不要去招惹她,因为,第一,这对一个真情真意的巨蟹女子来说真是太残了,巨蟹座的女人是玩真的,感情绝不是她们轻易亵渎的东西;第二,对于某些蟹座的女子来说,如果她的爱上你,想要摆脱她可没有这么容易。你应该知道被螃蟹钳住想脱身有多难的,是不是?她的缠斗精神会让你非常惊讶,我看过一个背叛巨蟹座女子的男人的下场。此起《致命的吸引力》好不到那儿去。当然,只有极少数的蟹座女子会有如此杀伤力,不过,你还是别心存侥幸为妙。

她的温柔体贴,以及全心全意的爱会让你感动的不得了,很少有女人会让你觉得自己是那么的重要。但是她的情绪化也很可能弄得你几乎疯掉。她非常没有安全感,敏感而且容易受伤。常常你的一句无心之言,就会弄得她泪流满面,或者生气不安。蟹座的女人有两种,当然正常的时侯都如温暖的太阳一样可爱,但是闹起情绪的时侯,一种是带雨梨花型,另一种就是定时炸弹型。如果你遇上的是前者,情况比较幸运,平常多带两包面纸就好了。若是后者,恐怕精神压力就比较大些了。

让她心情阴晴不定的原因有千百种,可能是因为她忽然觉得你好久不曾拥抱她了。也可能是你刚才对她女朋友说话的语气太温柔了。甚至可能是你刚才开玩笑,说她新烫的头发像鸟窝。对了!我忘了提醒你,最好不要随便批评,或是揶揄你那蟹座的小女人,她几乎脆弱的经不起一丝丝爱人对她的挑剔。总而言之,包括月亮的阴晴圆缺、海水的潮汐,都可能是影响她情绪的原因,而她最大的隐忧,就是她始终在担心,担心自己是不是够好,担心你是不是不再爱她了,她经常需要你的证实。所以我认为,对你而言,最简单的方法就是直接告诉她吧!

我有个巨蟹座朋友的老公告诉我,她每天起码问他十次「你还爱我吗?」而我另一个个性比较强烈的蟹座朋友干脆直接要求她的老公每天要说二十遍「我爱你」。你很难相信对不对?但是我发誓,这是千真万确的。

我想,除了真心爱她,没有更好的相处之道了,但你必须切记爱她的方法绝不是姑息。当她闹情绪的时侯,给她温柔的安慰,等她心情平稳下来之后,你必须很诚恳的告诉她,她过度的情绪化,对你造成了什么样的伤害!把你真实的感受让她知道,她是真心爱你的,她会知道应该适度的修正自己。千万不要一昧的息事宁人,你会把她宠坏的。蟹座女子有个奇怪的特性,那就是如果你不告诉她「够了」,她就会不断的尝试,看你能够容忍她到什么地步。她似乎很难明白什么叫「适可而止」。到最后她的情绪化会到了自己都无法控制的地步,当然,你也终究会忍无可忍的。

我有几个蟹座朋友的婚姻,就是这样出问题的!到最后她当后悔当初自己太任性。但是凭良心说,那个姑息养奸的丈夫,多少也该负些责任。怎么能在宠坏她之后,再到外面去寻求温柔的慰藉呢?说也奇怪,当巨蟹座的女子感情出了问题后,她们采取的行动也会让你大为警讶;在伤心难过之余,蟹座的女子很可能会去告诉丈夫的新欢,应该做什么菜才合他的口味;她可能会从洗衣店把他洗好的西装送到「他们」的住处;她更可能用私房钱帮他付信用卡的帐单。你不相信吗?我再发誓,这是真的。当我的蟹座朋友告诉我她们的伟大事迹时,我也几乎昏倒。她们就是这样,有的时侯可恶的过分,有的时侯又好的过份。她需要你宠她,她也相对的宠你。对蟹座女子来说,宠坏一个男人似乎是占有他的最好办法,即使你今天离开了她,等你想清楚了,迟早还是会回到她身边的,因为没人会像她那样爱你了。

所以,你应该明白,你必须学习用适当的方法爱她。如果你懂得相处之道,她会是个不可多得的妻子。你可以一生享受爱情的甜蜜,她会为你们的家一无保留的付出。蟹座的女性还有一个特点,那就是平时她虽然一副脆弱、情绪化,一副没有你就活不下去的样子,但是真的当你们遭遇到现实中的问题,连你都绝望助的时侯,她会变成一个坚强又有韧性的女人。你可以像孩子投进母亲怀抱一样的去依赖她,她会细心的医疗你的伤口,坚强的陪你共度难关。多数巨蟹座的女子都很有金钱观念,懂得量入为出的道理。(除非她有一个挥霍的月座或上升星座)通常她只会在心情沮丧(觉得你不爱他)的时侯,才会乱花钱来平抚内心不安的情绪。为了你的荷包着想,常常给她「爱的感觉」才是明智之举。

请用一种成熟而且负责的态度去爱她!不要在宠坏她之后,再责怪她!真心的爱一只蟹子你会得到丰富无比的回馈。我衷心的希望我的每一位蟹座好友,都能遇到一位好男人。

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看了这篇文章,才知道原来自己在感情里有着这样的情绪和状况。。
是好是不好。。我也不知道。。
就。。和大家一起分享吧。。


Saturday, February 14, 2009

CNY 2009 - Part II

3rd Day CNY -- 28.01.2009

Visiting with KBS Teens



Buddies in KBS..(part of them)






4th Day CNY -- 29.01.2009

Another day with pack schedule.. visited few buddies -- Evan, Siew Boi, Ai Wei & Cindy..with Jin Chen and Wei Chung. Luckily i managed to visit my form 6 form teacher, Mdm Hii and her baby gal..(i forget the name again.. '''(",))

Gathering again at grandma's house due to the arrival of our relatives from Taiwan -- Steamboat~!!!





Joy's house after steamboat..


She just love to live in the way she like.. felt sad and disappointed that i can't meet with my best buddy, Jennifer this new year..the 1st time i missed..i should have give her the priority. (Promised her for her birthday celebration during my sem breake in May..^^)


5th Day CNY -- 30.01.2009

After sending my brother to airport, i visited a friend who just back from Singapore, Ah Chen.. I missed Ying Jie's invite to Enter-K for his birthday celebration..i'd lost my car's key (Baby Emilia kept it..T.T) However, i got a nice dinner treated by Jessica..with Amy. ^^


CNY Gathering at KBS with all aunties, uncles and Teens..
also attended 药师结祈福晚会..made a new wish for this grand new year..


6th Day CNY -- 31.01.2009


9.20am flight departed from Kuching to KL.. again, i'm away from home.. a new trip for this CNY-->i visited my roommate's family and also her hometown in Seremban, met all her relatives and cousins.. (so paise they gave me lots ang bao..>.<)




Kah Yin & her family.. ^^


~@ Ying & Yin @~


8th Day CNY -- 02.02.2009

First day back in school after CNY celebration in hometowns.. Red Gang~!!! hehe.. ><


"Chap Goh Meh" 15th Day CNY -- 07.02.2009

Steamboat again~~~with Tony, Kelvin, Ah Keat, Nicholas, my bro and so on..the tables groaned with the weight of plates, not food.. haha!!!


Alvin's 21st Birthday..^^


Happy Chap Goh Meh~!!!



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my first trip back home for CNY or maybe an annual celebration..though i was just half year away from home, but i miss home lots.. Home with beloved family and cousins is always a place like no other.. i can still remember the moment i stepped on and off the plane (KL to Kuching)..i felt my excitement that i'm back for CNY!!! an excitement that i'd long lost.. he..^^ anyway, the celebration is over, everybody's back to usual life..but we'll all wait patiently..wait for the next celebration and more gathering to come..

Stay tuned~!! ^^

Val3ntinE'S DaY..

it's valentine again..
another year of single valentine..since my very first & only
don't wana make it a lonely day
so i ready a little surprise for my roommate
and surprisingly i got a present from my coursemates...
hehe...thanks lot guys~^^~


i made this for my roommate.. Kah Yin ^^



valentine's present from my coursemates.. few of us from bachelor's group got this surprise. haha.. ^^

Happy Valentine'S Day to everyone.. @^^@

**情人节不该只是属于恋人的日子,只要是有情的两个人,也可以庆祝**

Friday, February 6, 2009

CNY 2009

Moo Moo Chinese New Year has just over
a grand celebration.. back in hometown
gatherings and visitings from house to house as usual
let the photos continue my stories.. ^^



21 Jan 2009 - skip few classes and took early train from Kampar to KL..



5pm flight flying back to Kuching lu~ he..












Home Sweet Home~ ^_^



"Sa Chap Mei" CNY Eve.. 25.01.2009





lantern decoration in front of my house




fireworks display when midnight stroke

1st Day CNY--26.01.2009





Lion Dance at my house



Friends and cousins visit my house


2nd Day CNY -- 27.01.2009

Grandma's house with all maternal cousins











My Lovely Family... @^^@





My Aunties, Uncles & Gandma

My Cousins..



Yeo's Scouts..