有时候觉得说，人是真的是犯践的
我承认我是。。

“前度”

昨晚看了一部电影--“前度”
英文名字是--“Ex”

看完之后，心里也明白了那是怎么一回事
人家说
“女人专一，但绝情；
男人花心，但长情”
真心的爱过，付出过，会一辈子存留
绝情是不希望有牵拌；长情是因为曾经的美好

突然觉得依然保留初恋的人很幸福
因为没有怀念和回忆的束缚
可以坦荡荡的去爱和付出

我们的勇气还在吗？^^

对于爱情，其实越单纯越幸福
一生只谈一次恋爱是最好的
经历的太多了，会麻木
分离多了，会习惯
换恋人多了，会比较
到最后，也许我们不会再相信爱情..

每次参加别人的婚礼都觉得..
嗯~他们很幸福，很幸运的走到了这一步..
然后就在想，到自己的时候，我的婚礼会是怎样的..
什么时候我也和他们一样幸运，遇到了.. =)

“ 年龄对现在的女生来说其实已经不是重点了，
更重要的是要嫁的那个人.. ”

Cheers People.. =D

well well well....start off again with my blogging life.. XD

a good news here...

I'm currently employed.. working in my ideal field.. ^^

It's an event and exhibition (main) company

named -- IDA Exhibition Services (M) Sdn Bhd

Life is fun and tough as expected.. LOLx~

but i do enjoy myself throughout those "freshman" weeks..

Hopped around to check out others' works like a total idiot..

cos everything is kind of new to me..

(never involved myself in "Exhibition" before.. ==)

I watch, I see, I observe, I listen, I question and I learn..

everywhere i go, i'll have a notebook and a pen in my hands..

as in any minute, there'll be someone or something happened which teaches you a lesson or additional knowledge..

That's the challenging part..."be prepared for the unexpected!"

thousands and thousands of people asking..

"Why you choose this job? It's tough and you're a economics student.."

Hmmm...^^ the only reason i have is "It's the nature of this job that attracts me."

I'm glad that i've discovered what i want when i was in UTAR..

really grateful..and lucky enough, compare to the others..

Maybe you'll say i should go for MassCom..for my degree since i'm more into this

There's nothing to do regret...

I've gained extra knowledge from Financial Economics.. ^^

N tons of wonderful memories in UTAR Kampar..

Do you guys know how i got this job?

LOL~ it's kinda crazy...

2 weeks after i reached Kuching, a friend called for lunch

we chat as usual...and suddenly she asked..

"what kind of job you wish for..?"

"Mm...I wish to join events company"

"Izit?...i have 1, i worked there before, as part time"

"Really? bla bla bla~~~~~~"..........

so i got the number and i started to contact (attack) my current boss...

called once a day, 3 days continuously...asking for a vacancy..

He gave me a standard reply "I'm having discussion, i'll call you back"

so i wait and wait..

until 1 day, i accidentally found his name card on my brother's desk..

after i told my brother bout the job and so on..he called my boss

and then the next day i was called for an interview...a text from my boss..

"Can you come for an interview? Let's say 11.45am or 2pm?"

"Yes, Sure...2pm. Thanks so much!"

.............................................................then i got the job..^^ lol...

Life won't always turns out in the way we want

why not we try the other way to increase the possibility and chance for it...

never wait for the chance to come..

Search for it and Fight for it...Grab it tight when it's here.. ^^

Cheers People.. =D

i'm back^^

hohoho~ i'm back again...

it seems like i've been away for a decade.. XD

well...having a great life, can't be better..

stay tuned... ^^

5日5月2011年 广告时间

***广告时间***

最近常常听到这样的对白：

“我的头发很干啊..像干草（or 铁丝）酱”

“不耐啊..要去剪掉”

“怎么办..我的头发没得救了（or 拦了）”

这是我心里就会想：“有得救，有得救..”

来来来

今天教大家怎么保护头发

哈哈..不敢啦..

不过这是本人发现的一个小妙法

介绍给几个朋友，反应还不错，所以就顺道跟大家分享分享..

话说今年我把头发弄直了

理发师说刚弄好的期间要好好保护，修补回已经损伤的头发

好的。遵命。

所以二话不说买了几样“东东”

第一个，就是这个

Loreal hair mask for deep dried hair (300ml-RM28)

我用它拿来替代普通的Conditioner

一般人都是一星期用一两次

因为一次要进行30分钟，很久，又麻烦

现在教大家一个简单的用法

把自己一般洗澡的步骤稍微调整一下

先洗头，把头发的水弄干后，在发尾或一般干燥的部分涂上hair mask

用量大概是20仙或50仙的面积，根据个人发量的需要

完整抹上后把头发盘起来或用shower cap包好，继续其他洗刷步骤(5-10mins)

最后才用冷水把hair mask冲洗掉，用毛巾包起来

http://well.ca/products/loreal-hair-expertise-re-nutrition_32289.html?ref=relprod&related_product=32552

第二个，这个..

MSK hair care spray (150ml-RM28)

穿好衣服，涂好护肤品，保养品，最后才把头上的毛巾拿下

因为把头发包起来会有热度，可以“焖”一下，头发会感觉比较软一点

（个人经验，有兴趣者可以试看，再告诉我^^）

接下来用这个所谓的“营养水”，喷洒在发尾的部分

因为离发根远，吸收不到营养，所以干燥

（如果有钱的话可以买serum^^）

然后才继续其他的，比如说把头发吹干，等它干，涂护发素，上Gel等等..

http://www.msk.com.my/msk4.html

最后..

Hoyu Leave-on treatment with deep moisture (120ml-RM18)

这个是本小姐用的便宜护发素

平时把头发吹干后就会在发尾涂上这个

如果你没有专用的牌子，可以试用这个^^

http://www.cosmelandusa.com/index.php?main_page=product_info&products_id=2749

嗯..姐妹们，要头发美美就要勤劳一点哦..^^

4日5月2011年 宝贝

耳边传来了一首熟悉的童谣..

“世上只有妈妈好，有妈的孩子像个宝..”

突然想起，对，母亲节要到了

今年一样不在家，唯有越洋通电跟妈妈讲：

“妈妈，母亲节快乐”

自认从小不是特级乖的孩子

但至少是个可以让妈妈放心的小孩

离开家以后，才发现原来自己是那么爱家人

以前，和别人一样，会觉得妈妈很爱念，爸爸管很严

“哎哟，我长大了，不用担心酱多，会照顾自己..”

可是越是长大，越是珍惜爸爸妈妈的唠叨

因为心里知道，他们还有力气唠叨，表示他们依然健康，依然在我们的身边

等哪天他们离开了，还有谁会对自己那样的关心和担忧

记得有一次和一个朋友聊天

她的一句话让我想了很多

“每个父母都是生平第一次当父母”

对..

每个人一生中扮演的角色都是第一次，也是一生人一次

没有人可以很确定的说哪个角色是怎样怎样

我们只有接受，尝试，和如果愿意的话，一直改进

很多人应该都曾经想过..

为什么他的父母和我的父母不一样

为什么人家的父母怎样怎样，我的父母却不一样

爸爸（妈妈）本来就应该这样那样，怎么我的父母没有..

小孩子，都有羡慕别人好的时候

每个父母都很努力的让自己去学习和进步

希望能尽力扮演好自己的角色，给孩子幸福

年轻的时候，他们也和我们一样年少轻狂，花样年华

也有自己伟大的梦想和愿望

后来结婚了，也是因为两个人承诺终生，Happily Ever After

但也就在这个时候，我们出现了..

为了孩子他们选择割爱，舍下了梦想，撑起了一个家

就酱从满头黑发一直走到白发苍苍

没有一刻不为孩子牵挂，没有一刻放下了他们身为父母的角色

我们可曾深刻的理解和珍惜他们花了一辈子的付出和努力..

小时候我妈常讲：

“你现在嫌我烦，等你当妈妈了，你就会知道我每天心里多么烦，多么担心..

怕你们不乖，吃不好，睡不好，又怕你们说我偏心..你以为做妈妈酱容易啊？”

回想起真的觉得自己很不应该..

离开家出来读书才发现原来不只是家人在担心我

其实我也渐渐开始担心家人

不知不觉中习惯二十四小时手机随身，因为不知道他们几时会打来

到时到候打电话回家“哈啦”几句，目的为了update大家的近况

从不习惯，到现在已经习惯了家人的嘘寒问暖

（因为我们家的pattern都是“爱在心里口难开”..=="）

原来，我们一直都在圆满彼此的角色..

一年一度的双亲节又到了，

但是对父母的孝顺和感恩不应该只有在这两天

我们报答不了他们的付出，我们可以用一辈子去感恩

***和大家分享几个很好看的短片^^***

25日4月2011年 你。我。他。叙别会

顾名思义。。今天出席了一场为我（和其他人）而设的叙别会

哇。。很复杂（感觉）

三年以来第一次以“邀请嘉宾”身份出席佛学会的活动

浑身不自在，屁股痒走来走去找东西做。。

身边经过几张陌生的脸孔

不过不怕啦，自己人。。

后来那些熟悉的脸出现了，哈哈。。他们都来了

珍惜最后一次的团聚

老师，主席在台上讲活

我眼睛在看，耳朵在听，可是心就飞来飞去

飞去哪里？-->三年的回忆

旧照片一张一张的翻阅，脑海中的回忆一波一波的涌起。。

三年了，一路上的点滴就好像昨天的故事。。

明明那天才在档口前添“会员表格”

明明那天还一连三天开“OT”筹备“感恩夜”和“祥和YEAH”

记得几时几时要开PM会议，EXCO会议，Ad-Hoc会议。。

还有拜几拜几要上Mr.Lee的佛学班

都好像才刚刚过去而已。。

这个时候脑海中只有一首歌

张学友的《祝福》

（欲哭无泪。。T.T）

后记：感谢让我们相聚的因缘，祝福大家，来日后会有期。^^

考试期间，照片改天再补上。。（记得的话，哈哈。。）

某某日3月2011年 晴朗的午后

越是接近毕业的日子

越是舍不得这个美丽的地方

金宝。。

说起来，大部分的人都不愿意停留的地方

因为它不比城市好

因为它不比城市热闹

因为它不比城市繁华

因为它只是个小村庄。。

日子一天一天过去

渐渐的爱上了这个村庄

它有着清爽迷人的风景

它有着清凉的微风，美丽的草原，和宁静的街道

老人们悠闲的生活着。。

清晨起来偶尔散散步，吃个早点，和三五老几“吹个水”

呀~真是乐活啊。。

在大学生的眼里，它也许只是个转站点。。

这美丽的村庄迎接了一群又一群的过客

它从不埋怨客人无理的要求和对待

它使尽全力的去满足，只希望他们过得好

三年，四年，五年后，毕业了。。离开了

不期望人们会再回来探望

只盼望在他们的心中这小村庄的美丽一直存留着。。

26日3月2011年 他的演唱会

哇~这一刻真的觉得大学生活多么珍贵啊。。

悠闲的坐在礼堂的角落

听着台上一把又一把的好嗓子

拉曼真的是卧虎藏龙

没想到一个校园歌喉战可以让我这么HIGH..

而且冠军如我所料，就是那位帅哥啦！！

一首冠军歌曲《恋爱ing》简直把现场变成了个人演唱会

Wow...

今晚最兴奋的就是见到了黎昇铭老师

马上变成了小歌迷，买了他的新专辑《男人。男生》

然后排队要签名和合照。。哈！

对别人来说，他也许只是个歌手

但对我来说，他就像用佛曲陪伴我长大的学长

打从中学就听他唱的佛曲。。

最爱的那首---《我愿》

多年后见到本人，心里有种莫名的熟悉

虽然我们不认识，但因为佛曲我认识了“黎胜平”

感觉很亲切。。

很高兴见到你！我的佛曲偶像^^

25日3月2011年 晴天

播着怀旧金曲的音响。。

旋律在人来人往的福利社游荡

看着人们跟随着音乐轻轻哼着，陶醉其中的样子

突然觉得。。

“啊~原来大家都是八零后。想当年，这些金曲是我们小时候的流行曲呢。。”

呵呵。。

突然想爱你。。

***下一站，幸福@片尾曲***

突然想爱你

by 丁当 & 周华健

突然想爱 我已不是小孩

却像首次告白 只想被你爱

突然想爱 最坦然的坦白

像赤裸的脚踝 舒服自在

活过来 我都爱

突然明白 之前的都不算爱

我都爱 活过来

责无旁贷 也包括你的不可爱

总是突如其来爱 还让人眼界大开

原来一切值得期待

总是突如其来爱 像河流进了大海

原来应该这样 存在

突然想爱 最温柔的覆盖

草地等到花开 信手拈来

突然想爱 我已不是小孩

却想被你溺爱 只想被你爱

活过来 我都爱

突然明白 之前的都不算爱

我都爱 活过来

责无旁贷 也包括你的不可爱

总是突如其来爱 还让人眼界大开

原来一切值得期待

总是突如其来爱 像河流进了大海

原来应该这样 存在

爱是耐心 爱是勇气

爱是默契 爱是上瘾

爱是不可理喻

我还不了解的事

总是突如其来爱 还让人眼界大开

原来一切可以忍耐

总是突如其来爱 爱之所以成为爱

我在就为你的到来

***完整版***

好书介绍

那天闲着闲着到图书馆晃了一圈

溜着溜着。。发现了一本好书

“成长的路上就是这样。

每多探索一步，

就有机会找到下一步调整的方向。”

《吴娟瑜的情绪管理学》

我,木纳..

我承认我是个不把关心挂嘴边的人..对于身边认识或不熟悉的人,我不善于用言语嘘寒问暖,因为很难在对的时候说对的话..渐渐长大更明白"话多不如话少,话少不如话好",有时候讲多反而错多,所以我选择用我的方式去表达自己的关心..必要的时候,我会用我的双手双脚帮别人代劳,只要付出的那一份力是有用的.我还有一个习惯,就是喜欢当个聆听者,听别人的故事,听别人的喜怒哀乐,曾经有个人形容我总像个24Hours待命的"垃圾桶".呵..我可以用很多小小的行动去表示自己的关心,但就是说不出口..有时候觉得自己真的很缺乏"爱语"的精神.对于很相熟的朋友更是没有"爱语"可言..因为太熟了,说的话都是实话实说.但如果发现原来认识久了,对方并没有可以了解或习惯自己的作风,就马上退缩了..

"对不起,有时候开玩笑的表情会比较严肃一点."

"没有啦,我乱讲的啦.."(=="冒冷汗)

"其实不用太认真,讲爽而已..=P"

我知道有时候酱是很欠打,只是想搞一些气氛嘛.. :S

给人方便？

很久以前，听说了这四句话。。

给人信心，

给人欢喜，

给人希望，

给人方便。

多么美好的四句话

光读这四句话就觉得人间处处是温情

给于别人信心，也增加自己的信心

为别人带来欢喜，自己何尝不是在布施着欢乐给他人

让他人对生活充满希望，也在告诉自己明天会更好

方便，方便，给人方便，自己也方便，这是一个双赢的趋向

可想而知，这些是美德。。

总以为随着年龄的增长，脑袋的进步，人的行为思想也会改进

但原来那是未必的

我生活在处处都是大学生的环境三年了

并没有看到大家懂得如何布施自己的美德

尤其是大家无法完成 “给人方便”

大家都怕输，怕吃亏，所以总是争先恐后

能躲就躲，能闪就闪，免得不必要的麻烦

吃饱了，把盘子收一收，方便下一组人。。有点难。

同一条路，车稍微驾慢点，方便路人和脚车骑士。。满难的。

偶尔生活上稍微让一让，迁就迁就，皆大欢喜，方便大家。。难度更高。

有时候觉得自己“太好心”了。。

身边的同学对于这些行为已经习以为常，甚至认为那本来就是这样

大家都做，自己不做，就是笨蛋。。

没有人会好心让你，没有会体谅你

就好像“对敌人仁慈就是对自己残忍”

在这里生活，还真的需要一些“办法”。。

Life in UTAR@Week 6

Have you seen something like this before?

a Hand-made Mini Camera!!

it's currently "hot sale" in UTAR..with the posters written:

"More than 1000 Designs & Styles!!

Let's collect your own mini cameras at Block C & Block H"

Life.Style

Photography Society

sounds cool, right? Yeah..i know^^

It's actually a fund-raising activity and also an preview for the photo exhibition in the coming 7th - 9th March by the photography society in our campus. "Life.style" is the theme. Impressed with their creativity, each and every one of them is the only one.

Wandered around the campus today, from the last building (Block H-after the lecture class end) to the first (Block A-visit UTAR Flea Market in the hall) and back to Block H again. Dropped by DSA for the soft-skill courses registration, spent two hundred plus for 5 classes. It's not really expensive but hopefully it worth.(==...) Then i bought few more mini cameras from the Flea Market, from the photography society again. (XD..) I know this sounds crazy, but i'm doing this with the purpose to show my support and appreciate others effort. All this while, photography society's member is always very supportive for the events in our campus. They provide free-of-charge photo shooting whenever there's a request. They're Good..^^

I found few nice books from the book store. Each book with different contents, the economy analysis, for the youth and teaching about arts.

Tim Harford - The Under Cover Economist

Jennifer Weiner - Best Friends Forever

Robin Landa - Graphic Design Solutions

The latest department launched in UTAR Perak Campus, Wellness Centre. you can have appointment for X-ray, Blood-test, AIDS-test, Hepatitis B and so on.. No more scary hospital and clinic visit in Kampar.

Another Escape.. =P

Once again..another escape for the year end holiday. Packed my bag and off to the town.. Had a home-stay at YM place and her mother cooked "salty tang yuan" for the winter festival.. mm..the soup taste good..but to be honest, i felt odd to mix both them together..== it taste like you're eating tang yuan with pork soup.. *weird* but for people who usually cook tang yuan this way will find it delicious because the soup is really good..^^

Celebrated my Xmas twice in JB + Singapore, but both trip is totally different. Previous year i spent most of the days in Singapore. Eat, Shop, Window shop and .... Last year, more days in JB and only half day in Singapore. well..everything was good..really enjoy the trip. Once we arrived in JB, straight away we headed to Desaru Resort, nice beach..^^ The buildings, the beach, the sea, and the view are so natural and relaxing. It's a nice place for weekend escape or holiday trip.

Oh ya, finally i've tried JB "Kueh Teow Kia", which is actually similar to our "Kueh Chap" in Kuching. They serve the food separately instead of mix it all in a bowl, and the soup is slightly different. Go get a try when you visit JB next time..^^

Hmm..Yes, this is the one. Xmas dinner!! 100% home-made by Darius and his siblings. You know what, they're brilliant. They followed the instruction from the videos on Youtube, bought the ingredients and done the preparation. Genius! o.O

Dang Dang Dang Dang..!! Mos burger attack in Singapore. =D The latest flavour - Grilled Chicken Burger with Orange-Pepper Sauce. Side order - Hokkaido Milk Ice-cream (Green Tea & Strawberry).. Hohoho~ If you like German Beer, try this somewhere around Orchard Road. There're 3 types - Hefe-Weissbier (Alc-5.5%), Dunkei Hefe-Weissbier (Alc-5.3%) <--*Like^^* and Original Munchner Dunkei (Alc-5%)

Year end countdown in KL with SKY.. Happy New Year 2011!!

Year 3 Sem 3 students.. == He..

Prayed hard for the best in this new year. ^^

CNY Rabbit

Happy Rabbit New Year!!^^

Reunion Lunch at Grandma's place..^^

Say "Cheese"..^^

We can never deny that HOME is always a place like no other. I was home again..for the CNY celebration.. It's great.. ^^ but one thing bothering me which is i did not get myself the new clothes that i wish for.. it's all PTPTN fault!! when i saw those clothes, PTPTN has not arrived yet, but when it did, the clothes already sold out.. ==''' what a great coincidence..

The Group Photo..^^

As usual there were visiting activities going on. This year, unexpectedly i spent my first day at home, worked as a maid for my elder brother, serving his friends and colleagues who came for the "Open House". my goodness..i could hardly take a sit and rest, the crowd went in and out continuously and you know what..these people have bad table manner, they wasted the food, left the plates on the table like a mess..(== macam ginna) and order for Beer like for free (okay..it is FREE, but just few of them had already drunk about few dozens..) at last i end up asking for help from my cousins..

Grandma and US..^^

Next day, the 2nd day of CNY and i always dress myself with my favorite new clothe He.. why do i do this?? Hmm..i'm not sure about it. =P And we had a photo shooting session this year as well, a Big Group.. included my elder uncle and his family from Miri and KL. It is the best that we could gather together once in a while..

Everyboday say YEAH~..^^

I had not much meet up with friends for this CNY. Basically i spent most of the time at home doing chit chat with others, helped my mum preparing meals and watched TV whole night.. ASTRO..your feel good channel. LOL. Finished one drama series named "Autumn's Concerto". How much i miss those days with ASTRO.. Kampar has no TV, no radio and now i have no laptop somemore.. what a life.. ==

The Guys..^^

But anyway, i happen to hang out with the JACES gang for few times. And never miss out my gals --> Jennifer and Joy, had a great time with them at Delizze. CNY for our age now is no longer a festival where we get excited with lion dance, fire crackers and Ang Bao.. For us, it is a chance where we could come together and have a little sharing with each other after we're long apart and before the next time we see each other again.. =) Happy New Year People!!

The Gals..^^

Sons and Daughters..^^

and Their Partners..^^

The Scouts..^^

Yeo's family visits Miss Chee..^^